Life’s Challenges in Sabbatical Planning

by Matt | 1 Year Sabbatical on November 7, 2011

Sabbatical Planning

It’s been over a month since my last post and you may be wondering what’s been going on.  Is something wrong?  Why the lack of updates?  Did we make the move to Indonesia?  Are we living the good life in a tropical paradise?  This post will answer those questions and more.

Evolution

One of the things that I’ve learned along this sabbatical journey is that adaptability is a good skill to develop.  Like those goofy commercials for Nationwide Insurance so blatantly point out; “Life Comes At You Fast”.  Life does happen fast and one needs to be prepared to adapt, innovate and act on varying circumstances.  Without the ability to do this it’s so easy to become trapped in circumstance which is what happens to so many of us.

People often hint that there are “circumstances beyond their control” but I’m not sure I believe that.  Sure things happen that we have limited control over but we always have control over how we react to them.  We always have control over what actions we take to overcome those circumstances.

We’ve had a ton of “circumstances” present themselves over the course of the past 2 months.  Many of these have had the potential to derail our sabbatical train and we’ve had to scramble and brainstorm a bit to figure out how to navigate the stormy waters.  As a result our sabbatical plans have evolved and our path seems clearer, although still littered with challenges and uncertainty.

Life Comes At You Fast

The circumstances I referred to above were all medical related.  September was not a kind month to our medical needs.  First, I had to endure both an endoscopy and colonoscopy (hopefully they changed scopes between the two) which themselves were not unbearable (it was the prep beforehand that was the worst).  Drinking that nasty prep solution and enduring a bad case of McGurggles and explosive backfires was much worse than a tube being snaked into every orifice.  But thankfully the results showed nothing of concern although in a year I will need a follow-up endoscopy.  Still it was a big hit to the financial aspect of our sabbatical planning.

Next it was recommended that one of my kids get an echo-cardiogram.  These tests are not inexpensive and with our co-pay and deductibles it is once again a huge hit to our sabbatical budget.  But there is nothing more important than the health of your kids.

My wife had some minor surgery which will better diagnose a condition that was recently discovered during an annual checkup.  Anytime a medical procedure includes the word surgery you better tighten your grip on your wallet or purse because it gets expensive really fast even when you have decent medical insurance.  But again, if you are able to potentially diagnose a serious medical condition early then money isn’t really a factor to dwell on.  Still the financial sting isn’t easily ignored.

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You Can’t Control the Pitch

by Matt | 1 Year Sabbatical on September 20, 2011

You Can't Control the Pitch

Honestly I don’t like baseball.  If I’m flipping through the channels and hit a station airing a baseball game I just keep right on flipping.  I’ve been to a few games and I did enjoy myself but I think a large part of that enjoyment was all the beer I drank which distracted me from the fact that I was actually watching a baseball game.

But I do respect the skill involved in swinging a bat at a fast moving ball and making a solid connection.  The batter never knows what pitch is going to be thrown and in a split second has to decide whether it’s worth swinging at and then swing perfectly in order to hit the ball.  How they react in a split second to each pitch determines whether they get a hit or not.

Recently life threw me a curveball and I not only reacted to it in my typical knee-jerk way but I also had a hard time adjusting to it.  It’s funny and almost pathetic how when life throws us a curveball we almost instantly want to close our eyes, imagine the worst case scenario and swing at it wildly hoping to at least hit something besides air.

The Pitch!

Here is a brief synopsis of the scenario.  Ever since my last stay in Indonesia I’ve suffered from gastrointestinal problems.  At one point I had been diagnosed with a parasite and endured countless regiments of antibiotics.  I’ve taken herbs, probiotics, aloe-vera liquid, fiber supplements, and specialized vitamins; pretty much anything that promised a cure, yet nothing has brought total relief.

Sometimes I feel great and at other times my symptoms cause me problems.  Doctors seem clueless as to what it might be and instead of delving deeper into the mystery diagnose me with IBS.  So I decided that before I head back to Indonesia I’d go see one last gastroenterologist and see if they had any ideas.  They advised that I undergo some invasive and expensive procedures to rule some things out.  I agreed as I don’t think it’s wise to gamble with one’s health.

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Location Rebel: Work From Anywhere

September 13, 2011

My good friend Sean Ogle of Location 180 has put together what I think is an awesome program that teaches you many of the methods that Sean uses to build a business you can run from anywhere on the planet.  It’s called Location Rebel and Sean was gracious enough to grant me early access in [...]

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Homeschool: Our First Week

September 9, 2011

So we decided that we would start homeschooling our kids after a series of drastic budget cuts within the school district and the closing of our local neighborhood school.  We also didn’t want to put the kids in school just to pull them out again in a few months when we take off for Indonesia [...]

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5 Lessons Learned From Our First Garage Sale

August 28, 2011

Yesterday we had our very first garage sale.  I’m not talking about the first of the Summer or the first of the year; I’m talking about the first ever.  I’d never held a garage sale before and the sheer amount of clutter that was strewn about our yard was evidence of that.

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Escaping the Death Star in Your Life

August 13, 2011

You are a Jedi Knight (seriously, you are).  You have been enslaved on the Death Star for years but are implementing your escape plan.  You are now stealthily searching for the controls to the tractor beam that is keeping your ship from escaping the hangar so you can finally fly to the Liberation Galaxy where [...]

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The Meaning of Life

August 3, 2011

People search all their lives for the meaning of life.  They read books.  They find religion.  They go to school.  They take a sabbatical.  They commune with nature.  They seek the truth high and low.  Well today I uncovered the meaning of life on a bumper sticker of the car I was tailgating into work. [...]

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Why You Don’t Have the Money to Travel

July 28, 2011

I’ve spent the last several weeks shaking my head over the negotiations going on in Congress regarding raising the debt ceiling.  In many respects it’s sad to see the partisan bickering and school-yard bantering going on.  I thought we had elected grown-ups but current actions are proving me wrong. But the whole debacle should provoke [...]

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7 Links

July 18, 2011

OK, so maybe I am a bit late to the party but it was only a few days ago that I saw that Phil of Phil in the Blank had secretly nominated me to be a part of the 7 Links Project back on July 6th.  (And then this morning Gillian of One Giant Step [...]

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Interview with Worldschool Adventures

July 14, 2011

One of the things I’ve really enjoyed about the travel community we’ve become a part of is the number of families I’ve met that have made the same decision as we have to uproot and travel the world.  You could say that they are taking a sabbatical of sorts.  One of these is the Canadian [...]

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